Kevin Menezes

Loved and Saved by God alone to Love and Serve God alone.


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So What Are You After?

Whether you realize it or not, consciously or sub-consciously, you are pursuing something. Almost everyone on earth is. Most people are lost in the pursuit of MONEY. The others are split between Love, Pleasure, Fame, Health, Happiness, Knowledge, Peace, etc.

But of all human pursuits the noblest one is the pursuit of Wisdom. In fact, if you lay hold of these three — LOVE, PEACE and WISDOM — you have it made.

Master how to hold love in your heart towards everything and everyone even when they hold differing views. Learn how to remain in a state of peace and restfulness even when all hell is breaking lose around you. And, of course, seek wisdom. It will add years to your life and keep you smiling no matter what life throws at you.

In fact, if you lay hold of these three — LOVE, PEACE and WISDOM — everything else you desire will follow naturally.

PS: If you want to know how you can have all three in abundance, you are looking for Jesus. Do some research on him. And don’t just read what others said about him, read what he himself said. If you reflect on his words, you’ll find some very deep and profound stuff there…stuff that caused kings, emperors and the biggest sages from all the ages to tip their hat and call him ‘Lord and Master’.


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Render Your Taxes

Disclaimer: This post might bite you in the butt 🙂

There are many reasons why people try and avoid paying tax, or pay as little as possible to the government. Here are the top reasons:

1. I worked hard for this money. This is “MY” money.

2. There are so many people who don’t pay taxes, why should I be the only one paying?

3. The government is going to squander it all anyways, and most of the tax will go straight to the private accounts of unscrupulous politicians. So why should I pay?

Firstly, let’s get the facts right. Depending on where you live and which tax slab you fall under, 70–80% of what you earn is rightfully yours. It is your money to do as you please. You can also claim a deduction against the remaining 30% if you’ve made valid investments. If not, that money belongs to the government.

The money you pay in taxes goes to many places. In addition to paying the salaries of government workers, your tax money also helps to support common resources, such as police and firefighters. Tax money helps to ensure the roads you travel on are safe and well-maintained. Taxes also fund public libraries and parks.

It may be true that sometimes the money we pay in taxes is not utilized well. It may be true that unscrupulous politicians swindle a lot of the money that is paid in taxes. It is also true that many people don’t pay taxes at all. But none of that is an adequate justification for you to not pay your taxes. If you want better governance and accountability, vote for better leaders. The juvenile reasoning that ‘there are swindlers everywhere and therefore it is okay for me to swindle money as well’ is totally flawed.

You know why? Because in the end it’s not about the government and who else is not paying their taxes. It’s not about them and who they are — IT’S ABOUT WHO YOU ARE.

Are you a common thief? Are you a swindler? When you see people engaged in forgery, what is your natural response? Do you become a robber and a scam artist too? No! Are you sure? Then why are you forging your tax receipts?

These are the hard questions you should be really asking yourself.

Forget about the money for a second. God will bless you with a lot more if He is pleased with you. But first get your act together. You’ve got to hold yourself to a higher standard.

Jesus said “Render to Caesar the things that are Caesar’s; and to God the things that are God’s.” (Matthew 22:21) You don’t have to pay a single penny more than what is due.

I don’t know about you, but I have found that when I keep my conscience clean before God, He blesses me even more. I don’t care about where my money is going and who is benefiting from it. That is not my business. God will be the final judge. And the Bible assures us that He will hold everyone to account. Be a good custodian of what God has blessed you with.

Yes – earning money can be taxing. But you don’t have to lose your self-respect and integrity over it. Anyways, you will leave this place just as you came – Empty Handed.

“Be not deceived: nor thieves, nor the greedy, nor drunkards, nor swindlers, will inherit the kingdom of God.” (1 Corinthians 6:10). The only thing that will be accounted for in the end is how you handled your affairs when you had the chance.

You have the chance to make yourself proud — go for it.


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Bigot!

Do you use Google often? Do you know what Larry Page looks like? If you answered ‘No’, you are not alone. Of the millions of people who use Google every day, many have never even heard of Mr. Page.

In the same way, it is possible to work for Microsoft and never have met Bill Gates. It is possible to work for Reliance and never have met Mr. Ambani. You get my drift?

In quite the same way, it is possible that you have been in church all your life and have never yet met God.

And in the absence of a personal experience with the Creator all we are left with is the Culture. You look around and you think ‘Okay, so this is what church folk do. Sing a few songs. Stand up and sit down on cue. And then out the door we go’. And after a while that becomes such an empty experience.

It’s like attending the private party of someone you don’t know personally. In the absence of a relationship, once you are done with the cake and the food, you will always look for a way to sneak out.

And because there is nothing else to it, after a while you won’t come for the cake and cheese either, except maybe on Christmas and Easter — and even then only because grandma said it’s an obligation, and everyone’s going and besides you haven’t worn your new suit in a while. Get what I am saying?

But when it’s the party of someone you know and love dearly, you hang out till the end, you bring gifts, and you wait until you have had a chance to personally wish them. Why? Because you have a personal relationship with them and you cherish that.

A Personal Relationship with God — wasn’t that the crux and theme of Jesus’ life and message?

The way I see it: Jesus did not die so that the world could have another RELIGION, or so that we could have church on Sunday. He died so that we could have a Personal Relationship with God. And in the absence of that RELATIONSHIP, you are just another bigot masquerading as a Christian when you are anything but. And even you know that.

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Jesus the Hitchhiker

If Jesus ever went hitchhiking, I imagine almost everybody would want Him in their car. After all, life is a journey and we need all the help we can get.

Hop right in, Jesus. I could surely use you — like when I am in trouble, or when I am sick (I heard you’ve healed a lot of people), or when I am hungry (they say you are good with making food appear out of thin air), or when I need money (you can help me get some right out of the mouth of a trout), or if I die (you can raise me up).

Jesus, the Savior, would be the most popular hitchhiker in history.

Jesus, the Lord — um, not so much.

Because while we all want Jesus in our car, we don’t want Him to drive. We want to be in control and we want Jesus to hang at back, ready to jump in at our call every time we are in trouble — like a bodyguard, or a handyman.

Some of us wouldn’t mind Him sitting in the passenger seat upfront either.

“We can be co-drivers, Jesus. I’ll drive sometimes and then when we hit a difficult bend, you could take over. How about that?”

But Jesus is not just our Savior, He is also our LORD. And so the only way you are going to get anywhere with Him is when you let Him have the driver’s seat.

Figuratively speaking, you’ve got to get out of the car, hand over the keys and say,“Here you go, Jesus — You drive. I’ll ride at the back or even the boot if needed. But please take charge of my life and my destiny. Or I might just mess it all up. My view is limited, but You have a better view from up there. You can see the big picture. You know what’s coming down the road. And I trust You.

Now here’s the thing: When you give Jesus charge over your life, don’t expect a smooth ride. Remember Luke 8 when Jesus told the disciples, “Let’s go over to the other side.” Halfway into their expedition, they were hit by a storm and their ship almost capsized — until Jesus rebuked the wind and the sea and calmed everything and everyone down.

Bottom line: When you decide to give Jesus control over your destiny, you don’t get to choose the route. You just have to sit back and trust Him to get you to the Promised Land. Oftentimes, God leads us down roads we never intended to take, and yet we end up EXACTLY where we intended to be.

If you liked this write-up, you will love my book Crossing Over. It is packed with sound advice, personal anecdotes, case studies and quotations that will encourage you to stretch your faith and reap a bountiful harvest in every aspect of life.

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God & The Lottery

I don’t know about you, but I am really amazed at some of these Rolls Royce and Bentley driving social media preachers who make it seem like God is running a lottery business. Jesus warned that there would be plenty of them in the Last Days and here they are.

“Want to get blessed? Want to get rich? No problem. Just share my post on your social media feeds and type Amen. And next thing you know a bucket-load of cash is headed your way.”

Are you kidding me?!

If you think that gimmick holds any currency with God, you have absolutely no idea who He is and you’ve completely misunderstood what Jesus is all about.

How about this one? “Wanna get rich? Easy! Just follow Jesus.”

Dude! Are you serious?!

Let me clear this up for you: Jesus is not roaming around with a wad of cash looking for people He can hand it over to. Jesus is in the business of SAVING people, not making them RICH.

Who said “If you want to be perfect, go and sell all your possessions and give the money to the poor, and you will have treasure in heaven.

Who said “It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for someone who is rich to enter the kingdom of God.”

Do you get it? Jesus is interested in our ETERNITY, not our LUXURY. When you get Jesus you only get JESUS. And in Him we have everything — He is more than enough.

So, if you are waiting on God to stop by your house and dump a truckload of cash on you just because you forwarded something to 25 people within 4 minutes, you’re off your rocker. Nobody cares about your social media account, how many posts you shared and how many times you typed Amen.

But God does care about YOU and how you are using this Gift of Life He has given you. So if you want to get blessed, first HONOR GOD with the way you LIVE.

Have you actually bothered to HELP any poor people? Did you freely GIVE your stuff away to those in need (and I am not talking about your leftover change)? Did you go out of your way to help a destitute? Did you FEED the hungry? Do you have LOVE in your heart for anyone other than yourself? Do you HONOR your parents? Do you flee from evil? Do you strive for PEACE?

These are the things that really please God.

If you want get rich just so you could buy your cute self some more stuff, you’re going to be waiting a LONG TIME. Because quite frankly, my dear, God is not going to help you pamper yourself a little more. You have a better chance getting rich the old fashion way — by using your brains and Working HARD.

But having said all of that let me also say this: INDEED, GOD DOES BLESS PEOPLE. He does not mind us having money and stuff as long as the money and stuff do not have us.

Here’s the deal: God has already pronounced all the blessings we’ll ever need over this planet. Our task is to call them down. And we have the power to call down both blessings and curses upon ourselves.

Be Good, Do Good and you call down BLESSINGS.

Be Bad, Do Bad and you call down CURSES.

In other words, what we say and do determines how our life is going to turn out. When you turn your life over to God, the things you do to honor Him, the zeal with which you obey His commands — those are the things that get you BLESSED.

So, if you are watching porn one moment, typing Amen the next and thinking God is going to be pretty pleased because you balanced your crap out by sharing a “holy” post on your social media feed, you’ve got to stop deceiving yourself.

Your blessings and everything else pertaining to your life are tied to just one question: DO YOU LOVE GOD FOR WHO HE IS, or FOR WHAT YOU CAN GET FROM HIM?

And God already knows the answer to that one.


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Relationship Trumps Everything (Selfies With Jesus)

You walk into a mall and guess what?! Your favorite movie star Shah Rukh Khan is there to promote his latest film. He is taking selfies with his fans. You seize the opportunity and get a selfie with the man. It turns out be a very good picture. You publish it on all your social media feeds. You even hang the picture on your living room wall for everyone to see. People are amazed that you “know” Shah Rukh Khan and evidently you too are quite proud of yourself.

Then, one day, you are hanging with the gang in Bandra and someone says, “Hey look! Isn’t that Shah Rukh Khan’s house right there? Let’s drop in and say Hi.”

Flummoxed, you don’t know how to deny it all. Before you know it, you are at the main gate. The security guards ask you what you want. Your chums chip in: “He is a very close friend of Shah Rukh Khan.” They whip out your phone, show the guards your favorite picture, and sure enough there you are hanging out with the man himself.

The guards apologize: “Very sorry, sir. Please go right in. Shah Rukh Khan will be delighted to see you.”

You are now in Shah Rukh Khan’s living room. He’s been told a very close friend is here to see him. He will be down shortly. Now, here’s my question: When Shah Rukh Khan sees you, what do you think he’ll do? What will he say?

While you are wondering about that, let me take you to Matthew 7 where Jesus warns Christians they might face a similar dilemma. Because while we are busy taking selfies with Jesus (by being visible in the church, singing in the choir, sporting crucifixes and rosaries), the singular question on which our fate rests is: Do we know Him at a personal level? Yes, we know all about Jesus (like we know all about Shah Rukh Khan), but do we KNOW Him, like on a one-to-one basis?

And even more importantly: Does He Know Us?

Jesus said: “Not everyone who says to me, ‘Lord, Lord,’ will enter the kingdom of heaven, but only the one who does the will of my Father who is in heaven. Many will say to me on that day, ‘Lord, Lord, did we not prophesy in your name and in your name drive out demons and in your name perform many miracles?’ Then I will tell them plainly, ‘I never knew you. Away from me, you evildoers!’ (Matthew 7)

I don’t know you! Get out from my house!” – Isn’t that what Shah Rukh Khan is likely to say too when he sees you in his house, masquerading as a friend?

Shah Rukh Khan’s house is for him, his family and his friends. It is not for every freeloader who happens to be carrying a picture of him. Similarly, heaven is for God’s friends — those who actually took time to nurture a relationship with Him. It is not for everyone who just happens to be hanging on to a crucifix, a rosary or a supposed picture of Jesus, or St. Anthony or any of the other saints.

In short, the main criterion for entry is RELATIONSHIP, not Religion.

Jesus said: “Many are called, but few are chosen.” And, Yes, in Christ we all have free invite to the banquet in heaven. But we need to be watchful lest we be thrown out like the man in Matthew 22 who was invited to the wedding banquet but then cast out because he wasn’t wearing the right clothes. So, what is the right outfit for entry to heaven? It is Righteousness predicated on Relationship.

Think about this: How did you and your best friend become best friends? I imagine there would have been a lot of candid talking, and lots and lots of sharing (of both good stuff and bad). You would need to hang out together — a lot! To the point where you can trust each other and where you become the first responder in every crisis. That’s how we forge a strong bond with fellow humans, and guess what? That’s how you forge a bond with God too. By spending time together, talking, listening…

Then, one day, when you find yourself in His living room, you won’t have to worry about what He will say when He sees you. He’s going to rush down and simply embrace you just like you would hug a dear friend. There won’t be any need for words. And even if you try, He’ll say “Ssshhh!! You don’t need to say anything. We spent so much time talking with each other when you were on earth. I already know all about you. Just make yourself at home.”


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A Tale of Trinitarian Coexistence

One of the inane things Jesus probably endured on a daily basis was having the general public — even his own disciples — discuss who he really was while he was with them. Some said he was a prophet, some said he was the Son of God. Two millennia later, that discussion still rages on.

My personal take on this whole ‘Who is Jesus Debate’ is pretty simplistic: Wouldn’t it be a lot better if we just leave Jesus to be who He is and focus on doing what He said we should do? That, I think, would make Jesus a lot happier than us trying to figure Him out. Because, quite frankly, no matter how much we discuss and debate this, there are some things we will never completely decipher this side of eternity.

Having said that, I am always up for a meaningful discussion, even if that means answering some questions over and over again. So, here goes:

The biggest conundrum about Christian theology is the TRINITY. The ‘Three Persons One God’ concept is a stumbling block for a lot of people – Muslims, Jews and even some Christians – who subscribe to the monotheistic (one God) philosophy. But the irony is that Christians subscribe to the One God philosophy too. “Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one!” (Deuteronomy 6:4) and “There is no God besides me.” (Isaiah 45:5) If these are key tenets of the Christian faith, the natural question that arises is why do Christians then club Jesus and the Holy Spirit along with the One God Almighty?

That’s a very good question. Let’s use examples from the natural world to explain the Christian view of God because you can catch glimpses of the Creator in His creation, and everything God created reflects Him and who He really is.

We see the first example of Trinitarian coexistence in the Universe. The laws of Physics suggest that Time, Space, and Matter cannot exist independent of the other. If you had Matter but no Space, WHERE would you put it? If you had Space but no Time, WHEN would you put it? You have to have all THREE components bound together in a Trinitarian coexistence of sorts to have ONE functional Universe. The Bible sorts that out for us in the very first verse. Genesis 1:1 – “In the beginning (TIME) God created the heavens (SPACE) and the earth (MATTER).”

The second example of Trinitarian coexistence is the human race. Aren’t we who have been made in the image and likeness of God THREE dimensional beings too, comprising Body, Soul and Spirit? And what is your body without soul and spirit? That’s why even if scientists figure out some way to clone your body they will never be able to clone your soul. Your mannerisms, your thoughts, your ideas are unique to you and that is why there will never be another you – ever. Because the real you – just in case it hasn’t dawned on you yet – is not just your body. The real you is all THREE PARTS of you – body, soul and spirit – functioning together to be ONE COMPLETE YOU.

Jesus said “I am in the Father and the Father is in me.” (John 14:11). If you really want to understand Jesus and the Holy Spirit in relation to God take an ice-cube, drop it into a glass of water and then try figuring out which one is H2O. The minute the ice-cube hits the glass you can say the ice is in the water. But after a while you could also say the water is in the ice. And if that doesn’t convince you, pour it all into a kettle, put it on the stove, and watch it all turn into vapor. Water, the font of all life, can exist in THREE states: liquid, solid and vapor. But in all its states it is essentially still WATER.

Similarly, God is a three-dimensional being – Father, Son and Spirit. But they are intrinsically ONE. Jesus is the physical expression of a Trinitarian God, or the physical form God took to enter the physical world. He was God in heaven and God walking on earth all at the same time because God is not limited by time, space or matter. He is omnipotent, omnipresent and omniscient. And He exists far above and beyond the scope of all that He has created. He can permeate through everything to be whoever He wants to be because He is Limitless, abounding in Power, and with Him nothing is Impossible.

In short, we don’t serve a committee of Gods. Our God is ONE!

Hope that explanation helped. But if it didn’t, don’t worry too much about it. Like I said there are some things we will never completely decipher this side of eternity, and it would be a lot better for all of us if we just leave Jesus to be who He is and focus on doing what He said we should do. “Love your enemies, bless those who curse you, and pray for those who persecute you.”  I think Jesus would be a lot happier if we did this, regardless of what our theology is. Just saying.